Very functional, you might think. Our ego makes us change our behavior to what he thinks is expecte

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In my coaching practice clematis regularly come across people who feel trapped in their minds. They're looking for a place where they can talk about the curve, strange twists and obstructing haunting their minds unconditionally.
It often takes just come off of those people. It is first necessary trust before you make someone share your craziest thoughts. But once loose, those people are unstoppable. The air finally hitting clematis all those voices in your head lost and they do not have to pile up.
Schizophrenic? No, we judge ourselves all the time. Our ego looks all day along with what we do and look especially how we do it. Usually it is a stern voice that meebabbelt 'Good settled "" Oh no, that was stupid of you "" Do not say you know, what they will not find it there? "!
Very functional, you might think. Our ego makes us change our behavior to what he thinks is expected of us. How we do it in the outside world is simply important to us. But the voice is also tiring, because he makes us anxious and unsure if he still with his finger to point out what is and is not good. Take recluse in the world
We actually do it well, listen to all that need-s, ifs and buts that the voice offering us? How many know that voice really have outside of our world? He himself clematis is almost never there. At least, not if we do not let him out. Yet we listen to this hermit who has safely ensconced in our minds and find something anywhere.
A hermit is perhaps wise by his retired life, he loses touch with reality. His theories are indeed grand and convincing, but whether they are really useful? Therefore, do not forget to vote and you are good to let out. To carry, to step into the real world. Not only will the fresh air doing it well, so you can check whether its severe, 'method' instructions in the outside world still make sense. They do not, that you can release them. All the energy that remains, you put in more realistic indications that do work for you. Posted in: Human Resource Management Read more about: Career Coach
I'm clematis an organizational psychologist and psychotherapist io My fascination lies in the concept of 'learning' and myself am always curious about new experiences. I coach professionals in their development and am owner of Glimpses, clematis a trainers network for on-the-job learning. I organize taster clematis days in another (working) environment clematis for people with career issues. Website Iro
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